Do you wish you had someone good to share your life with?
Do you sometimes pick the "wrong" guys?
Do you have trouble finding the "right" guys?
Do you ever feel sad or discouraged about finding someone good?
You're not alone.
We all need someone good to love. But, sometimes, that can be hard to find. You might ask yourself...
"What's the matter with me?" "Why haven't I found someone?" Or "Why can't I find someone I really want, who really wants me?"
Sometimes love can be hard to find
You really want someone good to share your life with. You see people around you in relationships. And you wonder how they found each other. You keep trying. But, it doesn't really work.
Each time you hope it'll be different. Maybe this will be "the one." It's
exciting in the beginning. He can't get enough of you. But, once you're
really "in" the relationship, He backs off. You start to feel unimportant or
ignored. You begin to feel like he's "just not that into you." And you
don't know what happened.
Or maybe, once you get to know him, you realize he's not right for you.
And you don't want to settle.
Or maybe a real relationship is too scary. So, it's easier to go for the
guys you don't really want. At least, there's less risk. But, you get hurt
in these relationships, too.
So, you don't know what to do. You really want someone to spend your life with. But, sometimes it feels like you'll never find him.
It doesn't have to be like this.
You deserve someone you really want, who really wants you
No relationship's perfect. But, you can discover how to find someone you really want, who really wants you. You deserve a relationship that includes:
- fun and laughter
- friendship
- closeness and comfort
- fighting fair and finding compromise
- safety and security
- passion
Isn't it time to discover how you can find that kind of love?
You can find the love you really want
As you explore your relationship patterns and learn what works in relationships, you can discover how to find the love you really want. Sometimes it helps to understand:
I learned you can find someone good to love
I didn't grow up with good relationship models. And I spent years trying to find someone I could really love. With the care and support of a counselor, I began to heal myself and my relationships.
And, I'm happy to say, I found someone I could really love, who really loves me. Which is why I love helping you discover how you can find the love you deserve.
I love helping you
I love getting to share -- how to find and keep a good relationship. As a university instructor, I love teaching students how to have a good relationship. As a counselor, I love helping you discover how to find someone good to love.
I know it's a big step to reach out and ask for help. I know it means -- you're hurting. I provide counseling within a safe, supportive, caring environment, so you can feel free to share
and get the help you need.
If you'd like to discover how you can have the relationship you really want, I'd love to hear from you. Just call for a *free* 10-minute phone consultation. You can reach me at 626.215.2527. I can't wait to hear from you.
Take Good Care,
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Are you finding the love you really want?
Vondie Lozano, MFT, Ph.D.
626.215.2527
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