Do you ever feel like he's not really listening?
Do you wish you were closer?
Do you fight about the same things over and over?
You're not alone
Sometimes you can feel very far apart
Sometimes in the midst of our hectic lives, it's easy to lose touch with each other. Just working out daily life can be hard. You don't always see things the same way or need the same thing. And sometimes, you just don't understand each other.
And if there's any extra stress; like work, family or money worries. You can end up taking your frustrations out on each other, rather than reach out for support. You find yourselves fighting more. Or you shut down and pull away.
You know you really love each other. But, sometimes, you can feel very far apart.
It doesn't have to be like this.
Your relationship can be your safe place again
Stressful times don't have to drive you apart. They can actually bring you closer together. You can get what you need and be there for each other. Your relationship can be your safe place again.
No relationship's perfect. But, it's not asking too much to want:
- closeness and comfort
- safety and security
- friendship
- fighting fair and finding compromise
- passion
- fun and laughter
Isn't it time to find your way back to each other?
When you understand where your partner's coming from and they really understand you, you can begin to reconnect and heal your relationship.
Sometimes, it helps to look at:
I also help you with your communication and conflict negotiation skills. Because, when you learn to ask for what you want and to "fight fair," you can recover your love and affection.
I learned you can get through tough times
I spent years trying to find someone I could really love. And I'm so glad I found him. Because, I've learned -- you can get through tough times. In fact, tough times don't have to drive you apart. They can actually bring you closer together. The key is -- finding ways to work things out that build your relationship up, rather than tear it apart.
Sometimes, it helps to have someone who cares and understands to help you through those times.
I love helping you
My life's work has been to learn and share -- how to have a good, loving relationship, the kind we all really want.
As a university instructor, I love teaching students how to have a good relationship. As a counselor, I love helping you discover how you can both get the love you really want.
I know it's a big step to reach out and ask for help. I know it means -- you're hurting. I provide counseling within a safe, supportive, caring environment, so you can feel free to share
and get the help you need.
I'd love to hear from you
If you'd like to heal your relationship
and recover your love and affection,
I'd love to hear from you.
Just call for a *free* 10-minute phone
consultation. You can reach me at
626.215.2527.
I can't wait to hear from you.
Take Good Care,
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Do you ever feel like...
You've lost touch with each other?
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Men and women really are different. Sometimes you just need someone to validate that. Like women really do need to talk more. And men can feel like all that talking is turning into a fight.
Personality Differences
You probably fell in love with your partner because they were different from you. But, after you're together, it's normal to wish they would do things your way! When you understand your different styles, you can find compromises that work for both of you.
Family-Of-Origin Relationships
The families you grew up in lay the foundation for your current relationship. When you understand these past relationships, they don't have as much influence over you.
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Vondie Lozano, MFT, Ph.D.
Relationship Counselor
626.215.2527
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